Glossary of Swinging Terms


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AC/DC: Participating in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships; bisexual.                                                 
ADULT: Euphemism for pornographic.
ALL CULTURES: Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE)
AMERICAN CULTURE: Traditional guy-on-top, girl-on-bottom intercourse; "missionary position".
ANAL or ANAL SEX: Anal intercourse; Greek; Greek Culture.                                                                             
ANALINGUS: Licking or sucking the anus.                                                                                                                   
ARTS: Euphemism for fetishes. (see CULTURE)
ATM: Ass-To-Mouth, which refers to the act of anally penetrating a woman and then putting your penis in her mouth.
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B&D or B/D: Bondage and discipline; use of various methods to restrain someone while administering discipline, usually done by a “master” to his/her “slave”. (see BONDAGE; DISCIPLINE; BDSM)
BBW: Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their “ideal” weight, but are comfortable with the size that they are.
BDSM: A combination of three terms: BD (Bondage & Discipline), DS (Dominance & Submission), and SM (Sadism & Masochism). A wide range of sexual activities having to do with power.

BEAR CLAW: Refers to a woman's unusually large labia (vaginal lips).

BI: Bisexual: Versatile(see AC/DC)
BI-COMFY: Varies from person to person but usually used by a woman to state that she is comfortable being around or with a woman who is BI. A “BI-COMFY” woman may or may not desire to have sex with another woman. She is merely “comfortable” with the idea of playing with another woman but does not wish to label herself as “BI-SEXUAL.”
BI-CURIOUS: A person who has little or no experience having sexual relations with a same gendered person but is interested in finding partners to explore that side of his/her sexuality.
BI-FRIENDLY: When used in the description of a club, BI-FRIENDLY means that the club is open to bisexuals of both genders. When a woman uses this to describe herself it means she feels no attraction to the same gender but she has no hang-ups that preclude a bit of friendly fooling around when the situation seems to call for it.
BISENSUOUS: Individual, generally a lady, who is comfortable with same sex activities, but not aggressively Bi.
BISEXUAL, BI: Individual who enjoys both heterosexual and homosexual relationships.
BIZARRE: Unusual sexual desires; Way out.
BONDAGE, B&D: A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth, or leather straps are used to bind, tie, or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered Dominant and the person being bound is considered submissive.
BUGGERY: Anal intercourse.
BUKKAKE: A Japanese sexual term that refers to showering a receiver with sperm from one, several or many men. It is always a sperm shower and, therefore, those on the giving end are always male.
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CAMELTOE: A slang term that refers to the outline of the labia majora seen through tight clothes.
CAN ENTERTAIN: Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging.                                                  
CAN TRAVEL: Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing.
CANING: A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood.
CELIBATE: Not participating in sexual activities, either by choice or circumstance.
CHEATING: Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and or consent. Sometimes referred to as swinging by married men whose wife "does not understand".
CLEAN: Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases.
CLOSED DOOR: (see CLOSED SWINGING)
CLOSED SWINGING: Couples swing in separate rooms, out of view from one another. The rooms are almost always in the same house or motel/hotel.                              
CLOSET SWINGER: A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. (see DISCREET) 
CORKSCREW: When you place your middle finger over your index finger and, when penetrating a woman with your fingers, twist your wrist while making your way in and out.
CORRESPONDENCE: Person generally only interested in a letter or photo exchange.
COUPLE: In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes; CPL.
CPL: Couple.

Cream pie: When a man ejaculates inside a woman’s vagina or anus without using a condom, it’s called a cream pie.

CROSS DRESSING: Male/female dressing up and enjoying feminine/male clothing..
CUCKOLD: The originally meaning is the husband of a wife who cheats, it has come to mean (more often than not) a husband who’s wife plays without him and comes home to tell him about it. It can also mean a husband who watches his wife play with others, or is forced to watch. This can also be reversed on the wife. Since different people use the word to mean different things, it is best to ask the people using the word in order to clarify the definition.
CULTURE: Distinctive ways in which sexual intercourse may be performed, usually named after the country in which the activity was first recorded or exceptionally popular. Euphemism for Fetish, Arts.
CUNNILINGUS: To kiss, lick, nibble or suck upon the female sex organ.

CYBER SEX: Talking about sex with someone on the Internet, in a chat room or by email.

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D&D: Drug & Disease free, meaning that a couple/person is is STD free and does not use drugs.

DAISY CHAIN: A daisy chain refers to a group of more than two sexual partners, stimulating each other at the same time. While Partner A performs oral sex on Partner B, Partner B performs oral sex on Partner C, who performs oral sex on Partner D and so on, ultimately resulting in a chain where the last partner is pleasing the first partner. A daisy chain can be all-female, all-male or a combination of both sexes.

DENTAL DAM: A small sheet of latex which acts as a barrier between the vagina or anus and mouth, used during oral sex.

DIAPHRAGM: Another name for the cap - a rubber contraceptive in the shape of a small dish that sits at the neck of the womb to block sperm from reaching a woman's eggs.

DILDO: An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus.
DIRECTOR: The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally call a Manager.

DIRTY SANCHEZ: Put very simply, a Dirty Sanchez is a mustache made of fecal matter that ends up on a woman’s upper lip after a man has anal sex with her.

DISCIPLINE: A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings.
DISCREET OR DISCRETION: Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity.
DOCILE: Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE).

DOGGY STYLE: A sexual position where one person is kneeling on all fours and their male partner enters them from behind.

DOMESTIC TRAINING: Submissive obedience to chores of an intimate or humiliating nature, sexually arousing the individual(s).
DOMINANT: The sexual partner in control of the willing submissive partner.
DOMINATRIX: A female dom; a mistress.
DOUBLE PENETRATION: Being penetrated in two orifices at the same time. (usually refers to anal and vaginal, may also include oral)
DP: Double Penetration.                                                                                                                                                      

DYKE: A slang term for a lesbian, a woman who may act or look like a male and fancies other women.

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EJACULATE: When a man reaches climax his penis produces sperm, also known as 'coming'.

EMERGENCY PILLS: Contraceptive pills that can be taken up to 72 hours after unprotected sex to prevent pregnancy. Also known as Emergency Hormonal Contraception (EHC).

ENGLISH CULTURE: Excessive whipping; use of canes, handcuffs, etc. during sexual acts (see S & M).
ENTERTAIN: (see CAN ENTERTAIN)                                                                                                                          
EUROPEAN STYLE CLUB: One that requires clothing to be removed (sometimes after a certain time of night).
EXHIBITIONIST: A person who is sexually stimulated by being seen or watched by others while showing portions of the body or engaging in sexual acts.
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F: Female.
FELCHING: which involves sucking semen out of any orifice it has been deposited in, usually the anus.
FELLATIO: Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth.

FEMALE CONDOM: A soft sheath that lines the woman's vagina and stops any sperm from getting into it.

FETISH: Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy as a stimulant.
FFM or FMF: Threesome involving two women and one man (see THREESOME)

FINGERING: When someone uses their fingers to stimulate a woman's genitals.

FLAGELLATION: Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking.
FMF: A threesome between two women and one man.                                                                                                    
FFM: A threesome between two women and one man. Sometimes when a person writes FFM instead of MFM they may mean that there is to be sexual play for all 3 but only sexual penetration with one of the women. If you are unclear, you should ask the person you are corresponding with as to what they mean by this arrangement of the letters.
FINAL SWAP: Actually trading partners for sexual intercourse.     

FOREPLAY: Any kind of sexual activity that leads up to, but doesn't include, full sexual intercourse. Foreplay could include kissing, fingering, oral sex and masturbation.

FOUR WAY FOREPLAY: An interaction between two couples where there is lots of touching and caressing between the couples. The ladies may interact, but does not generally involve interaction between the men.
FRENCH: Oral-genital sexual activity (see FALLATIO; CUNNILINGUS)                                                                  

FRENCH KISS: When you kiss someone and put your tongues in each others mouths.

FRIGID: A slang word for someone who can't get sexually aroused.

FROTTEURISM: A fetish that involves rubbing up against an unsuspecting or unwilling person.
FULL SWAP: Also referred to as “HARD SWAP.” It means there is to be sexual penetration for all of those engaging in the group’s activities.      
FUN AND GAMES: Euphemism for sexual activity.                                                                                          
FUR BALL: This occurs when you're performing cunnilingus on a woman who doesn't trim.
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GS: Group Suite a room most often at a club function in a motel/hotel where couples swap partners or are able to play with only their partner even though it's in a group. A.K.A. Orgy Room.
GAY: A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian.
GBM: Gay Black Male.
GENEROUS: Refers to money for sex. Not an acceptable practice in the Lifestyle.

GENITAL EXAMINATION: When a doctor or nurse examines the vagina, or penis and testicles.

GENITAL WARTS: Small growths on or around the genitals caused by a virus.

GERMAN CULTURE: Erotic acts of stern discipline.
GIVING HEAD: Oral sex.
GOLDEN SHOWER: See urolagnia and water sports.

GONORRHOEA: A sexually transmitted infection, also known as The Clap. It can be easily treated with antibiotics, but can get serious if it is left untreated.

GREEK: Anal-penile intercourse.
GROUP ROOM: Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US as in swing clubs. (see MATROOM).
GROUP SEX: Swinging; Social-sexual activity between three or more people.

G-SPOT: An area inside a woman's vagina which may create lots of sexual pleasure for her. The area at the top of the vagina where the back of the clitoris meets the vaginal wall; stimulation of this area may cause female ejaculation.

GWM: Gay White Male.
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HAND JOB: When someone stimulates a man's penis until he ejaculates (cums), using their hand(s).

HARD CORE: a swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction in assumed and expected.

HARD-ON: Another word for an erection.

HARD SWINGING: (see FULL SWAP)
HEAD: Oral-genital sexual activity; “Giving head”. (see FRENCH CULTURE; FALLATIO; CUNNILINGUS)
HEDONIST: Lives for pleasure.

HEPATITIS A-B-C: A disease that affects the liver which can be caught through sexual activities like rimming, or by sharing infected needles used to inject drugs.

HERPES: A virus that can lead to sores on the face or genitals. It can be passed on through sexual activities, or other close contact. There is no known cure for Herpes and you will always carry the virus, but it can be treated.

HETEROSEXUAL: Sexual attraction only to members of the opposite sex.
HIGH DIVE: When you pull your erect penis all the way out of your partner (whether it be her vagina or anus) and then penetrate her in one fell swoop.

HOMOPHOBIA: Hating or disliking gay people for no reason other than that they are gay.

HOMOSEXUAL: Sexual attraction only to members of the same sex.
HORNY: Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.
HOTDOG IN A HALLWAY: Discribes a vagina that's so wide, it lacks the ability to provide an adequate grip on your penis, to put it nicely.
HUMANIST: Person who believes in human values, potential, self-respect of the individual, personal freedom and human rights.
HUNG: Refers to a man with a large penis.
HWP: Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight.
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INDOOR SPORTS: Swinging activities in general.
IMPOTENCE: Failure to achieve an erection.
INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP: Seeks swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values. Used chiefly in personal ads and letters in answer to personal ads.

INTERNAL PELVICEXAMINATION: An internal exam performed on a woman, if they complain of specific symptoms. It is simple, painless (although it might be a bit uncomfortable) and shouldn't take longer than ten minutes. A plastic or metal instrument called a speculum may be inserted into the vagina and then the nurse or doctor will put some gloves on and examine the inside of  a vagina with their fingers while they press on the abdomen.

IR: Interracial.
IRL: In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat.
ISO: In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female.

IUD: The IUD (Intrauterine Device) is another name for the coil. It is a small device usually made of plastic or copper. It is inserted into the womb and stops fertilised eggs from settling and growing. Lasts up to five years and is 99% effective at stopping pregnancy.

IUS: The intrauterine system (IUS) is a small, plastic T-shaped device containing hormones. It sits in the womb and works for five years. It is more than 99 per cent effective at stopping pregnancy.

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JACKING OFF: J/O. Using either the right or left hand to stroke the penis in a quick manner resulting in an ejaculation.

JAP'S EYE: Slang term for the small opening at the end of a man's penis where urine and sperm comes out.

JISM: Another word for semen, cum or sperm.

JONNY / JONNY: Another word for a condom.

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karma: In the Hindu doctrine, the passage or transmigration of souls from one place to another. According to the Kama-Sutra, sexual-fulfillment was regarded as one way of achieving reincarnation at a higher level of existence, though not as important as leading a virtuous life.
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LABIA: The flaps of skin on either side of a woman's vagina.

LEATHER: A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing of leather garments.
LESBIAN: A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women.

LIBIDO: Another word for sex-drive.

LICKING OUT: When someone uses their mouth and tongue to stimulate or pleasure a woman's vagina, also called oral sex or cunnilingus.

LTR: Long Term Relationship.

LUBRICATION: A slippery fluid to make sex easier and more fun. Some oil-based lubricants can damage the condom so make sure you use a water-based lubricant and read the instructions.

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M: Male
MARITAL AIDS: Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others.
MASOCHISM: Sexual satisfaction achieved through the endurance of pain.
MASTER: A dominant male, usually formally trained in the arts of B & D and/or S & M.
MASTER/SLAVE: Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE)

MASTURBATE: Touching or stimulating your own or someone else's genitals for sexual pleasure. Masturbation is a natural and normal way of exploring your own body. Also called wanking.

MATROOM /MATTRESS ROOM: Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM).
MBC: Married Black Couple.
MBiC: Married Bisexual Couple.
McGINLEY ROBERT, Ph.D. Founder of The Lifestyle Organization. The "God Father of Swing". Dr. McGinley was an aeronautical engineer with a government security clearance when he decided to answer a "swinger's" advertisement. As it happened, the husband of the couple was on active duty with the Air Force and his mail was intercepted by military agents. This lead to an investigation and the subsequent withdrawal of McGinley's clearance. The fact that the loss of a career might result from a legal sex act between consenting adults was the catalyst that started Dr. McGinley on a life long quest to end such unjustifiable acts of discrimination. The Lifestyles Organization began as a small, informal discussion group that quickly grew to a much larger association of members and regularly scheduled meetings. Then came Club WideWorld, an on-premise Swing Club. The first national conference was held in 1973 and since then the annual gathering has grown into the largest, longest running Lifestyles convention in the world. The TLO!
 
MENAGE A' TRIOS, THREESOME: Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. May involve an on-going emotional relationship of the participants.
MFM or MMF: Threesome involving two men and one woman (see THREESOME)
MIXED COUPLE: Of different nationalities.
MOOSE KNUCKLES: Male organs showing through clothes at the crotch.
MORESOMES: More than three people in a swinging interaction.

MORNING AFTER PILL: Another name for emergency contraceptive pills. Taken up to 72 hours after unprotected sex the morning after pill prevents pregnancy.

MWC: Married White Couple.
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NASCA: The North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines, based in California to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become, to give a national voice to the growing swinging community and to promote the development of ethical swing clubs everywhere. An excellent organization.
NEWBIES: New people in swinging; First-timers. (Not a bad thing.)
NEWCOMERS: Same as Newbies. ( Not a bad thing.) New people in swinging; First-timers.
NONSMOKER: Does not smoke! If used in a personal ad it generally means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.
NON-SWAP: No final exchange of sexual partners for intercourse, however masturbation and other non-coital activities between couples generally are accepted.
NOVICE: Beginner/inexperienced.
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OFF-PREMISE: A swing club event that most often is held in a motel/hotel. No actual swinging takes place at the dance as in the ballroom. You meet at the dance and make your own arrangements. From there you can go to your room or theirs if you have one booked. Most off-premise clubs host hospitality and group suites after the dance RIGHT THERE IN THE MOTEL/HOTEL.. At most off-premise clubs you are able to leave to go play in your room and come back to the dance and do it all again. Great for newcomers as well as the veterans of the swinging Lifestyle.
ON PREMISE: "Open" or "closed" areas for swinging are available at the location. Many times these are simply small unorganized house parties. In large cities legitimate large elegant clubs do function in On Premise settings.
OPEN SWINGING: A couple or couples swinging with another couple in the same room or bed.

ORAL SEX: Using the mouth and tongue to pleasure and stimulate a man's penis or a woman's vagina. There are contraceptives available to avoid catching STI's through oral sex, such as Dental Dams and condoms. Few actually use Dental Dams.

ORGASM: The peak of sexual pleasure, orgasms are different for everyone and not everyone has an orgasm every time they have sex.

ORGY: Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; group sex.
OUTERCOURSE: Sexual play that does not involve putting the man's penis in the woman's vagina
Outercourse includes hugging and kissing, as well as massaging and stimulating one another's bodies and genitals with your hands and mouth and has a lower risk for pregnancy and infection than intercourse.
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P/P: Photo and phone number (used in personal ads).

PAEDOPHILIA: When a adult has unlawful sex with a child under 16. Age varies state to state.

PARTY: Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging.
PARTY CLOTHES: Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear.Includes clothes to wear to the party and to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wraps, andother simple clothes that are easily removed, shows the wearer to bestadvantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily availablefor erotic courting and foreplay.
PARTY HOUSE: (Western US ) A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties.
PASSIVE: Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging. (see DISCIPLINE)

PEARL NECKLACE: A man gives a woman a pearl necklace when he ejaculates on her chest, neck and shoulders as a result of him masturbating on her or thrusting between her breasts -- also known as tit-fucking.

POLYAMORY: A love relationship involving more than 2 people.

PONY PLAY: An extreme form of BDSM, "pony play" is when the bottom, or the sub, becomes an animal (hence, pony) and no longer has the responsibilities or privileges that humans have. Also called "bestial play."

POV: In a POV porn the man or woman receiving sexual gratification holds the camera himself/herself and aims it down at his/her genitals and the partner(s) who is/are pleasuring him/her. This is in contrast to having a separate camera crew filming the action. The effect is to give the viewer the sense that he or she is experiencing the sexual acts he/she is watching as opposed to simply watching others as a voyeur.
pov also means suck my dick or pussy or just means point of veiw.
PRINCE ALBERT: A piercing of the penis, usually done to increase the pleasure of both the wearer and his partner during sexual intercourse.
PRO: Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escort.

PROPHYLACTIC: A condom also known as a rubber.

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QWEEF: A term invented to describe a rush of air from the vagina that sounds similar to flatulence. In layman’s terms, a qweef is a “vagina fart.” This often happens after particularly enthusiastic sex when air is forced up into the vagina as the man thrusts inside.
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RECREATIONAL SWINGER: A person who practices swinging as a recreational diversion with no desire at all for an emotional attachment and does not generally even want to know your name.
RESTRAINT AND PLEASURE (R&P): Mild bondage used in a sexual fantasy enactment.

RIMMING: Oral sex; however, it is performed on the anus.

ROMAN CULTURE: Orgies; many people doing many things in the same place at the same time. Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc.
RUBBER: Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D.
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S & M: Sadism-masochism, giving or receiving pain.
SAFE: Surgically sterile.
SCAT: Refers to the use of excrament/fecal matter.

SNOWBALLING: When a woman goes down on a man, he ejaculates into her mouth and then she spits it back into his mouth while kissing.

SOCIAL: A party; dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging Per se at a social but privately arranged swinging may follow.
SODOMY: Non-coital, especially anal or oral, copulation with either an opposite sex or same sex partner.
SOFT SWINGING: A social, erotic swing environment where sexual activity is common and available, but not required nor assumed. Sometimes used to describe same room swapping up to, but not including intercourse. Couples that only have intercourse with their own partner.
SPLIT ROAST: An act done by three people (usually a woman and two men, but the concept works with all homosexual males as well), in which the person in the center is penetrated in the vagina or ass by one partner, while performing oral sex on the other.
SPLOSH: In sexual terms, splosh refers to a messy fetish that can involve food, such as porridge, or anything gooey, like mud.
S.T.D/S.T.I: Sexually transmitted diseases or Sexually transmitted infection.
STRAIGHT, STR: Non-swinger; A swinger who is not interested in same sex sexual activity; A person who does not use drugs; A person who is not bi sexual, gay or lesbian.
SWAPPING: Two couples or more that exchanging partners for sexual activity (can be same room or separate rooms).
SWEDISH CULTURE: The exclusive and talented use of the hands to stimulate sexual arousal; masturbation.
SWING CLUB: A swingers club, generally with private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on and/or off premise swing parties. Many also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee. Party attendance may be restricted to couples.
SWINGING LIFESTYLE: Style of living with swinging as a major component in the choice of friends, business, social life, and intimate relationships.
SWINGING: Social-Sexual Relational Recreation among men and women. It is a couple oriented activity but single men and single women sometimes are involved. An alternative lifestyle for consenting adults who enjoy social, recreational sexual activities with others, most often on a couple-to-couple basis, with full knowledge and mutual consent of both partners. It maybe any combination of men and women.
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TAN: Tested Antibody Negative for HIV virus. (AIDS)
TESTOSTERONE: A hormone which in men triggers the development of sperm and a masculine appearance; women's bodies also produce small amounts of testosterone which may be important to a woman's libido.

THE MENTHOL: The act of  performing oral sex on someone while or after eating a mint.

THE MORK: Taken from Mork & Mindy , the popular '70s sitcom starring Robin Williams, in which Mork had a specific hand gesture greeting, "the Mork" involves keeping your first two fingers and your last two fingers stuck together, and separating them. At this point, you would place your index and middle fingers inside her vagina, and your ring and pinky fingers in her anus.

THREESOME: Three people having sex, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. Could be any combination. (see Menage a Trois)
TICKET: A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the man to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention of swinging or is not free to swing. She may be Pro. (see pro)
TOYS: Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of oneself and/or on others. Any and all Marital Aids.
TRANSGENDERED: Individual who does not identify with his/her biologically assigned sex. Not related to sexual orientation.
TRANSSEXUAL: Individual who has undergone conversion from one gender to another through surgery and hormone treatments; or one who is in the process of gender conversion.
TRANSVESTITE: A person who receives sexual gratification by wearing clothes identified with the opposite sex; not necessarily homosexual.
TRIAD: Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.
TRIOLISM: Used in personal ads to indicate desire for “threesomes”. This is a common to some but a confusing usage.
TUBAL LIGATION: Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation.
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UROLGNIA: The art of urinating on another person to produce sexual gratification in one or both partners.
UTOPIAN SWINGER: One who practices swinging as a total lifestyle.
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VANILLA: Typically refers to non-swingers. (ie. “vanilla friends”)
VASECTOMY: Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to artificially sterilize a male.
VERSATILE: Bisexual.
VOYEURISM: A sexual fetish for watching or peeping at others engaged in sexual activity.
VULVA: A woman's genital area including the labia, clitoris and vaginal opening.
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Water sports: A fetish which involves one partner urinating on another.
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