"Males Only Workshop"

(Call for next Workshop date)

Men, are you having difficulties talking with your wife, significant other or a female about the lifestyle? Do you desire to gain the knowledge to speak intellectually to your wife, significant other or a female perspective partner? Do you desire information on ways we have found that others have utilized information that may allow your partner to feel comfortable enough to attend a L’Sota function?

And guys, do you ever wonder why you as a single male are unable to "find" a partner and how some single males have one or more? If you are dating, do you have a partner but you just know if you do talk about the subject of the alternative adult lifestyle “swinging” she will tell you, "no way"?

Are you experiencing "I would never do that" from your wife, significant other or female friend? Would you like to learn as much as you possibly are able, thus standing a better chance to get your "partner" involved so you as a couple are able to attend dances and other L'Sota functions or for that matter other clubs or national conventions?

If so, then look no further! L'Sota is proud to offer you the opportunity to attend the "Men's Only Workshop". Learn from other males including a swing club leader that has been extremely active within the Alternative Adult Lifestyle both locally and nationally for over 25 years. The L'Sota "Mens Only" is a MUST for all males that wish to possess the knowledge needed to talk with their partner about L'Sota and the alternative adult lifestyle that we call "swinging".

There are in fact a number of males that desire to know and learn all about swinging, however, due to ego problems they feel as though they know it all……..We all have learned one way or the other. If there had been this type of workshop around back when many of us started our swinging most all of us would have jumped at the chance to attend. The L'Sota Workshop/Orientation will eliminate many of the pitfalls that most all of us have experienced learning what swinging is and what it isn’t.

L’Sota’s Males Only Workshop/Orientation will take the guess work out of what is, what isn’t, what should be and what shouldn’t be.

We feel that this workshop is an extremely beneficial workshop for all males and couples that have ever desired to be a part of all the fun, sensual excitement and more of any swing club or convention.

This workshop is for the couple or for the man that is truly interested in becoming involved in one of the greatest organizations of the world, the alternative adult lifestyle. Here a just a few of the many topics that shall be discussed in a relaxed, informative setting:

·          How to approach your partner

·          The religious aspect

·          Nuts and Bolts of swinging

·          Turn a "maybe" from her into yes

·          Body image

·          What is respect

·          What is a Dance Blast Social

·          Why she will desire to attend

·          Personal hygiene

·          The truth vs. the myths

·          What women desire

·          Your partner is always number one

·          How to meet couples

·          What if it heads south

·          STD’s and H.I.V.

·          Testing

·          Jealousy issues

·          Partying

·          Friendship, is that it

·          Is it what you think it is

·          What to expect

·          What is a convention

·          The end result, what may we as a couple expect

·          How to "locate" a partner if you are a single male

·          And much more

Some of these topics may seem “lame”, trust us, they are not! We shall expand into every area of every subjected outlined above and beyond.

The above are a few of the topics that shall be discussed at L'Sota's "Workshop/Orientation". Men will have the opportunity to talk with men that are active and involved with swinging. Why we do that is that some men are much more comfortable talking to men about certain issues. Some of the subject matter   many men would feel uncomfortable speaking with women about.

To attend the "Workshop/Orientation" a L'Sota membership is NOT required. Everyone that attends and completes the L'Sota workshops shall have fulfilled the requirements of attending L'Sota's orientation. If at the end of the "Workshop/Orientation" you desire to become a L'Sota member, you are at that time able to do so.

There is NO PARTYING involved with any L'Sota "Workshop/Orientation".

These "Workshops/Orientations"are held one Saturday night each month. Guys, this is the "Workshop/Orientation to attend if ever you desired to know the "no bullshit" positives as well as the "no bullshit" negatives about the adult swinging Lifestyle. This is a Smoking Permitted event. You may even bring along your favorite drinks.

Whether you're new to the Lifestyle or a veteran, you will learn and become educated about the Lifestyle, as well about L’Sota. The "Workshop/Orientation" shall be limited, make sure you register early.

L'Sota truly wants you and your partner to obtain the MOST out of your Lifestyle experience. For questions, call the L'Sota HOT LINES at 319-329-3306. When calling, please indicate that you are calling reference the "Workshop/Orientation".

The "Workshop/Orientation" is approximately 4 hours in length. You are able to have any and all of your questions addressed as well as answered by a club leader in the question and answer session of the workshop. Discover how you can become a part of this exciting, fun filled adventure called the Alternative Adult Lifestyle.

To register for the next "Workshop/Orientation" call the L'Sota hotline at 319-329-3306. You may mail your check or money order to: L'Sota P.O. Box 1075 Cedar Rapids, IA 52406

See the Events section here on the L'Sota website for The next "Orientation". Times for the "Workshop/Orientation shall be 5:30 pm until 9:30 pm. Pre-registration is required to attend. The cost is 40.00 per couple or single male. Couples and single males are the same donation requested.

Call 319-329-3306 with questions. You may also register by mailing your check or money order to the L'Sota P.O. Box 1075, Cedar Rapids, IA 52406

"Ladies Only Workshop"

(Call for next workshop date)

Ladies, have you wondered if L’Sota and the alternative adult lifestyle is correct for you? Now is your chance to discover and ascertain if it is by attending L’Sota’s "Workshop/Orientation". L’Sota’s "Workshop/Orientation is just that, a workshop and orientation. The ladies only portion is presented by women for women. No males are allowed in the meeting room where the ladies only portion of the "Workshop/Orientation is held. The males during this Ladies Only portion shall be doing their own Males Only Workshop.

While we the women are in one meeting room the males shall be attending the "Men’s Only Workshop" in a totally separate area in another meeting room. We have found that this enables the ladies to talk openly, honestly as well as exclusively with other women. This enables females to talk about what concerns women the most at L’Sota as well as within the lifestyle.

Here a just a few of the many topics that shall be discussed:

• Basic terminology

• Two men, one woman

• Jealousies are my feelings ok?

• Etiquette

• STD’s and HIV

• Bi female sexuality

• How to say no and mean it

• Personal hygiene

• What do we as women expect?

• Is it for me?

• What is L’Sota?

• Do men hear us?

• To party or not to party?

• What to expect and what not to

• The positives and negatives

• Truths vs. myths

• How discreet is it?

• How safe are women?

These are just a few of the topics and subjects that we shall be discussing at the "Workshop/Orientation". Have your questions and concerns addressed by women that have been extremely active within L’Sota as well as the swinging lifestyle.

You shall discover what most all if not all women do..... have had..... or will experience the same feelings, questions and apprehensions that you may be feeling. The L’Sota ladies only workshop is for every woman that has ever wondered what it’s "really" all about. If you are a "single" female, a female of a couple, if you are only curious or if you are a veteran of the swinging lifestyle, you will become knowledgeable and educated about L’Sota the club as well as the lifestyle nationally. The positives as well as the negatives shall be discussed in detail, "no holds barred." Each and every question, topic and subject shall be honestly discussed.

The ladies only portion of the Workshop/Orientation shall be full of fun, humor and extremely educational. You are able to submit your questions anonymously if you so desire prior to the beginning of the "Workshop/Orientation. Once again, whether or not your married, single, with or without a partner L’Sota’s " Workshop/Orientation" is for you. Broaden your horizons and find the truth of what swinging is. You will feel comfortable and relaxed with other women just like you. This is not a party but an educational, fun and an informative event. You are not required to be a L’Sota member to attend.

The "Workshop/Orientation" is approximately two hours of discussion and questions being answered.  Smoking is permitted and you may bring your favorite beverage. The cost to attend the "Workshop/Orientation" as a single female is only 10.00. If you are attending with a male you as a couple are able to attend for only 40.00.

Please check the Events area on the L'Sota website for the next Workshop/Orientation. Feel free to bring along a friend (or friends). The guys won’t know it but we may also touch on makeup as well as other things women talk about. We look forward to meeting you. Question? Feel free to call the L’Sota hotline at 319-329-3306 and ask for Dena or Dave.   You may leave us a message as we check our voice mails often.