L'Sota's Workshop/Orientation
L'Sota hosts A comprehensive Workshop/Orientation about every six months for couples as well as for single females and single males. We invite you to attend from 5:30 pm - 9:30 pm. This is open to members as well as non members. No membership is required to attend. The only requirement is that you are 21 years of age or older.
This is perfect for those couples as well as singles that have thought about becoming involved with the alternative adult lifestyle but who really were unsure if it was for them. This is also a great refresher for that that have been involved.
The couples Workshop/Orientation as well as the female/male Workshop/Orientation is held at the same location the same evening. Check the "Events" for the next Workshop date or simply contact us. This is much more then the required orientation, this is a true Workshop.
What is the difference in a pre dance, pre Play Nights orientation Vs. the Workshops/Orientations? The Workshop/Orientation is much more comprehensive because we have much more time to discuss topics and issues with you. It's like a one-on-one but with a group.
You will hear the honest and to the point "nuts and bolts" of the Lifestyle a.k.a Swinging.
This is a 4.5 hour Workshop/Orientation held on a Saturday evening in a motel/hotel meeting room. There is not an official function afterwards. This is the function. No playing, partying or nudity....We know, that's hard to believe. It's an evening of fun, openess, relaxation and truly a learning adventure.
For apporximately 1 hour the group meets together then after a break the males go into one room and the females go to another. Both rooms are led by the gender of that room, males with males, females with females. This provides the males with time to discuse things like football....no just kidding. Yep, and you know the women will be talking shopping.
Space is limited therefore as soon as you see it posted upon the events page you might want to make your reservation(s). Don't get shut out. Cost is 40.00 per couple or 25.00 per single. Singles bring a friend and it's only 40.00.
L'Sota truly wants you and your partner to obtain the MOST out of your Lifestyle experience. For questions, call the L'Sota HOT LINES at 319-329-3306. When calling, please indicate that you are calling reference the "Workshop/Orientation". Once regisrtation opens you may mail your check or money order to: L'Sota P.O. Box 1075 Cedar Rapids, IA 52406
"Males Only Workshop" (Call for next Workshop date) Men, are you having difficulties talking with your wife, significant other or a female about the Lifestyle? Do you desire to gain the knowledge to speak intellectually to your wife, significant other or a female perspective partner about the Lifestyle? Do you desire information on ways we have found that others have utilized that may allow your partner to feel comfortable enough to attend a L’Sota swing function? And guys, do you ever wonder why you as a single male are unable to "find" a partner and how some single males have one or more? If you are dating, do you have a partner but you just know if you do talk about the subject of the alternative adult lifestyle “swinging” she will tell you, "no way"? Are you experiencing "I would never do that" from your wife, significant other or female friend? Would you like to learn as much as you possibly are able, thus standing a better chance of getting your "partner" involved so you as a couple are able to attend dances and other L'Sota functions, for that matter other clubs or national conventions? Learn from other males including swing club leaders
that has been extremely active within the Alternative Adult Lifestyle both locally and
nationally for over 30 years. There are in fact a number of males that desire to know and learn all about swinging, however, due to ego problems they feel as though they know it all……..We all have learned one way or the other. If there had been this type of workshop around back when many of us started our swinging most all of us would have jumped at the chance to attend. You can now eliminate many of the pitfalls that
most all of us have experienced learning what swinging is and what it isn’t. L’Sota’s Males Only Workshop/Orientation
will take the guess work out of what is, what isn’t, what should be and what
shouldn’t be. We feel that this workshop is an extremely beneficial workshop for all males and couples that have ever desired to be a part of all the fun, sensual excitement and more of any swing club or convention. This workshop is for the couple or for the man that is truly interested in becoming involved in one of the greatest organizations of the world, the alternative adult Lifestyle. Here a just a few of the many topics that shall be discussed in a relaxed, informative setting: · How to approach your partner · The religious aspect · Nuts and Bolts of swinging ·
Turn
a "maybe" from her into yes ·
Body
image · What is respect · What is a Dance Blast Social · Why she will desire to attend · Personal hygiene · The truth vs. the myths · What women desire · Your partner is always number one · How to meet couples ·
What
if it heads south ·
STD’s
and H.I.V. · Testing · Jealousy issues ·
Partying · Friendship, is that it · Is it what you think it is ·
What
to expect · What is a convention · The end result, what may we as a couple expect ·
How
to "locate" a partner if you are a single male ·
And
much more Some of these topics may seem “lame”, trust us, they are not! We shall expand into every area of every subjected outlined above and beyond. The above are a few of the topics that shall be discussed at L'Sota's "Workshop/Orientation". Men will have the opportunity to talk with men that are active and involved with swinging. Why we do that is that some men are much more comfortable talking to men about certain issues. Some of the subject matter many men would feel uncomfortable speaking with women about. To attend the "Workshop/Orientation" a L'Sota membership is NOT required however everyone that attends and completes the L'Sota workshops shall have fulfilled the requirements of attending L'Sota's orientation. If at the end of the Workshop/Orientation you desire to become a L'Sota member, you are at that time able to do so. Some restrictions do apply. You may even bring along your favorite drinks. Call 319-329-3306 with questions. You may also register by mailing your check or money order to the L'Sota P.O. Box 1075, Cedar Rapids, IA 52406 |
"Ladies Only Workshop" (Call for next workshop date) Ladies, have you wondered if L’Sota and the alternative adult Lifestyle is correct for you? Now is your chance. The ladies only portion is presented by women for women. No males are allowed in the meeting room where the ladies only portion of the "Workshop/Orientation is held. The males during this Ladies Only portion shall be doing their own Males Only Workshop. We have found that this enables the ladies to talk openly, honestly as well as exclusively with other women. This enables females to talk about what concerns women the most at L’Sota as well as within the Lifestyle. Here a just a few of the many topics that shall be discussed:
These are just a few of the topics and subjects that we shall be discussing. Have your questions and concerns addressed by women that have been extremely active within L’Sota as well as the Lifestyle. You shall discover what most all if not all women do..... have had..... or will experience the same feelings, questions and apprehensions that you may be feeling. The Workshop is for every woman that has ever wondered what it’s "really" all about. If you are a "single" female, a female of a couple, if you are only curious or if you are a veteran of the Lifestyle, you will become knowledgeable and educated about L’Sota as well as the Lifestyle nationally. The positives as well as the negatives shall be discussed in detail, "no holds barred." Each and every question, topic and subject shall be honestly discussed. The ladies only portion of the Workshop/Orientation shall be full of fun, humor and extremely educational. You are able to submit your questions anonymously if you so desire prior to the beginning of the "Workshop/Orientation. Once again, whether or not your married, single, with or without a partner L’Sota’s Workshop/Orientation is for you. Broaden your horizons and find the truth of what swinging is. You will feel comfortable and relaxed with other women just like you. The "Workshop/Orientation" is approximately two hours of discussion and questions being answered. Bring your favorite beverage. The cost to attend the "Workshop/Orientation" as a single female is only 25.00. If you are attending with a male or another female you as a couple are able to attend for only 45.00. Please check the Events area on the L'Sota website for the next Workshop/Orientation. Feel free to bring along a friend (or friends). The guys won’t know it but we may also touch on makeup as well as other women talk about. We look forward to meeting you if we have not yet had the pleasure. Question? Feel free to e-mail or call the L’Sota hotline at 319-329-3306 and ask for Dena or Dave. You may leave us a message as we check our voice mails often.
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