Myths about L'Sota
"A Sharing Experience"
P.O. Box 1075
Cedar Rapids, IA 52406
319-329-3306
Myths/ Questions |
Facts |
| L'Sota allows public nudity!!! | L'Sota follows all laws, thus there is no public nudity at any of its functions!! In fact if public nudity is detected upon any location where L'Sota is hosting a function those involved shall be asked to immediate leave the location AND those involved shall have their L'Sota membership immediately revoked. |
| L'Sota allows public sex!! | L'Sota follows all laws, thus there is no public sex allowedwithin any public area at any L'Sota functions!! In fact if public sex is detected upon any location where L'Sota is hosting a function those involved shall be asked to immediate leave the location AND those involved shall have their L'Sota membership immediately revoked. |
| L'Sota requires females to sleep with the hosts or co-hosts before you can be a member!! | L'Sota doesn't require anyone to do anything that they do not desire to do with anyone at anytime for any reason. The Lifestyle and L'Sota is about respect, having fun and enjoying yourself, not about being required to do something that you don't want to do. |
| L'Sota allows single males to harass the couples and single females that attend the functions. | L'Sota restricts the number of sponsored single
males admitted. L'Sota has in place and shall always enforce the rules strictly when it
comes to "NO" means "NO THANKS". Currently single males are permitted to become L'Sota members as a sponsored single male only and then on a very limited basis. |
| L'Sota makes a lot of money. | L'Sota was founded in 1988 and is a not-for-profit club. All memberships, donations, and out of kind contributions are used by L'Sota for L'Sota's expenses. Operating costs to run a first class safe, and progressive club like L'Sota is costly. Operational expenses are much more then what one might even imagine. |
| L'Sota is full of cliques and only desires the "pretty people" to become members. | L'Sota has very few members that aren't comfortable in a larger group. A very few are only comfortable in small groups, all clubs and organizations will have this occur. Most often it is not due to "cliques" it's more often due to the fact that a few are insecure. Nothing at all to do with being "snobs". L'Sota discourages cliques of any type. All of the L'Sota membership consists of every day people, small, tall, big, short, medium etc. Great attitudes and respect is what L'Sota is all about. |
| The hosts and co-host of L'Sota don't party. | The host and co-hosts of L'Sota are in the positions they are in because of their beliefs in as well as their experience, knowledge and understanding of the Alternative Adult Lifestyle "swinging". Yes, the hosts as well as the co-hosts party and play and play and party! |
| Is L'Sota like other clubs where there is a large volume of alcoholic beverages consumed. | NO! Most all L'Sota members believe that adult Partying has nothing to do with becoming intoxicated. To a few it's the "alcohol that made us do it". Those are the individuals that we desire do not become members of L'Sota. L'Sota is a true swing club not a "get drunk club"! |
| We as a couple desire to party discreetly and not become "friends first", can we do this at L'Sota? | Most certainly! Some clubs place emphasize on or require you to be "friends first". As adults, if you become friends or if you don't is totally your choice. If you desire to play and remain anonymous that choice is totally up to you. L'Sota is a very discreet club, always has been, always shall be. Logically it takes most people a long time to become true "friends". If you have the time and desire to become "friends first" great. Freedom of choice is alive and well at L'Sota. The choice is yours. |
| Do we need an invitation to attend L'Sota? | No! All couples and single females over the age of 21 years of age are welcome to become L'Sota members and attend L'Sota functions. |
| L'Sota is higher in cost then another club? | Our research indicates no. Unlike other clubs we don't have or in all honesty we don't desire 100 plus couples at a function. L'Sota has always been a "not for profit" club. With most everything in life you most often receive what you pay for. L'Sota places cleanliness, quality as well as your security and comfort as a high priority. |
| We want a club with a large number of couples attending, is that L'Sota? | What is "a large number"? To be honest, L'Sota desires quality down to earth couples that truly want to party and respectfully play. If you have 75 couples in attendance and only 25 are true swingers, those that actually play and swap on a regular basis then numbers mean nothing. After all, L'Sota is a swing club, not a "Bar" club, not a club where true swingers are on display for the wanna-bees to view and rub elbows with. L'Sota is therefore a club where couples that truly desire to party, play and enjoy know there shall be other like minded couples attending. Couples that know where the quality adult partying is the finest, that's at L'Sota. |
"A Sharing Experience"
P.O. Box 1075
Cedar Rapids, IA 52406
319-329-3306